While there can be considerable variation between species, the main external differences between male and female cetaceans are that females have MAMMARY SLITS which flank each side of the genital slit AND females have a long external genital slit in which both the vagina and anus are located while males have separate genital and anal slits (see figure below). There can be considerable variation where the genital slit is located ventrally in male cetaceans so be sure to double check!
Often times when an animal is decomposed, the mammary slits can be hard to distinguish. If you are unsure after examining the animal visually, you can take a gloved finger and palpate the genital slit. If you find that your finger is able to penetrate with a forward (cranial) position this is a female. If your finger slides more toward the tail of the animal then it is male and you should be able to feel the penis.
Below you will find helpful hints on gender identification in cetaceans.